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You’ll feel much better about it and you’ll radiate good energy to everyone you meet – including that cute clerk at the shoe store. If you’re chatting with women online or at bars, just have fun and be yourself. Join groups that interest you or sign up for classes you’ve always dreamt of taking.

Even when you’re on a bad date, you can still find something to enjoy (the food, the movie, or planning your escape – bathroom window, anyone? Get in touch with yourself and what you really want in your life.

But a negative attitude will push other women away. It’s important to have other people in your life for emotional support. Take the time right now to cultivate those connections.

As Janet Mock, author of We Didn’t Transition Just to Date Straight Men. Trans women don’t transition to fool straight men into sleeping with us.

This disgusting form of ignorance has been sensationalized in both television and film.

If nothing else, trans women in the adult sex movies and the sex trade remain a top-seller among straight men.

According to the sex site P*rnhub, the “shemale” category ranks 22nd in most searched — that’s a lot of sex on the interent.

Fetishization, discrimination, harassment, and even homicide aren’t unheard of for us, but it doesn’t have to be this way.

In order to spare my fellow trans women from the often harsh reality of our attempts at finding love, I wish the people who dated us would keep these things in mind: Save the Bedroom Talk For the Bedroom.

Besides, should the topic of discussion on your first date really be a woman’s vag? Know what trans means and don’t expect trans women to be your professor on gender studies, because who wants heavy discussions on a date when you could be drinking wine?

I Googled everything I wanted to know as I came to terms with my gender identity, so spare the textbook talk with a Google search, a book, or an actual classroom.

Trans women are taught that we only deserve companionship through secrecy.

Being open about your relationship with us conveys the message to society that we deserve to be seen.

The numbers show that between 40 and 60 percent of trans women identify as bisexual or lesbian, so whether it’s men, women, both or none, we can date whoever we want. If you’re attracted to trans women then you’re attracted to women. Many people confuse gender and sex or don’t understand the difference between the two. Sexual orientation is shaped by your attraction to a person’s gender identity.

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