I’m a night person, also, believe me — but I learned my lesson about being a night-person-who’s-online-dating, so message in the day or early evening if you're looking for more than a booty call. Recently, I helped a guy friend set up his online dating profile and when he started to get matches, I learned he didn't write to any of them (until I stepped in). I suggested the same things to him that I did above, and now he has three coffee dates planned.Trust me, you’ll see how people's messages and responses change. Though it may take practice, online dating — and messaging potential dates — gets easier the more you do it.As an avid dater, online and off, and as someone who used to work for Dating Coach Evan Marc Katz, helping clients write their profiles, I saw many common online dating mistakes.
Hopefully it’s regarding an image, post, or comment she left rather than simply her looks.
And I see you’ve just edited the question with the girl’s facebook page. If she sees that you’ll likely look like a creeper.
Usually, though, they can see when you last logged in, so what does waiting really prove (aside from showing that you're busy and writing to other people)?
I know that sometimes we log in just for a moment and don't have time to write back immediately.
Pick a few intriguing things that they said in their profile and go from there.
For instance, I just looked at another random guy’s Ok Cupid profile.
I like to end with the questions, as I feel it entices them to write back about those first.
Also, remember that this person is a stranger and you're trying to make a good impression, so save the incomplete sentences and purposeful (or not) typos for when you're dating. But if you didn’t ask the guy or girl a question (even if they didn’t ask you one), you need to go back and ask one (or a few)! If you want a response, you need to give them something to respond to.
Mainly, online daters didn’t market themselves in the best possible way, which made it challenging for others to initiate contact with them.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating